Things that make you go What the F**k?

[Truthsayer]

It doesn't outrage me at all but 'them' is not a person's name..
Them is a pronoun that refers to more than one person... how can one person be 'them'?
With it all I mean for practical reasons not that religious fundamentalism?
Teacher pointing at students: 'you-you-you and them, stand up!'

Hypothetically if someone drives into you and you don't know anything about them yet, you would be right in saying "they drove into me, the damage to my car was done by them".

Even if it was a big bearded muck savage wearing wellingtons from the Loup?  Not him.. the hure?!

You're adding more confusion here, no one outside the tight family circle will really know 😁

  don't know why I got involved in this debate... can't make head or tail of the whole thing! apart from Enoch being a fundamentalist idiot.
And shouldn't have dragged the good people of the Loup into it    

[Armagh18]

https://www.belfastlive.co.uk/news/northern-ireland/co-antrim-school-suspends-19-33235863?fbclid=IwZnRzaAPV9iBleHRuA2FlbQIxMQBzcnRjBmFwcF9pZAo2NjI4NTY4Mzc5AAEezVR7I0sUoo7-nBXDRyVsUHscGdfrd7_XCKAerHTDiOjwaKvwBl5h7T3Zv1I_aem_co_q8t-hCl0dAiAlN-bwYA

Strange one this. 19 suspensions seems abit excessive- obviously no one deserves to feel intimidated at work but if you're going to work in a school with teenagers you can't afford to be too precious. Hard to comment on it without knowing the full detail

Here's a parent who doesn't understand how teenage boys act the bollox when in their own peer groups.

""I am disgusted to hear her terminology such as "masculine toxicity" with my son's name beside it. Anyone who knows my son, knows he is the most lovable, kind natured, humble young person with the utmost respect to all. Some of these boys have never even had a detention.""


When you put that in a statement....

Feckin parents need bate with a hurl...

See he probably is a wee angel the majority of the time, but when teenagers get into a group they can collectively become little twats.

[Armagh18]

I haven't a problem calling someone by their chosen name, but a pronoun such as 'them' when it is a singular person in front of me, no way.

Why? What difference does it make to you? I don't understand the reason someone would choose pronouns for themselves but who am I to say they shouldn't just because I am content with how I'm addressed? And if using a different word makes life easier for them and makes sh1te all difference to me, why would I choose to not do that?

We all call people things they want us to call them.

Every single one of us knows a Paddy, Marty, Jim, Des and so on.

When did Ms instead of Miss or Mrs start?

When you are talking about them, say them, not he or she.

It takes more effort to be outraged.

Do you say them is a gobshite or them are a gobshite?

[general_lee]

You know you're dealing with a headcase when he tries gatecrash a Free P service attended by the DUP 

[bennydorano]

I haven't a problem calling someone by their chosen name, but a pronoun such as 'them' when it is a singular person in front of me, no way.

Why? What difference does it make to you? I don't understand the reason someone would choose pronouns for themselves but who am I to say they shouldn't just because I am content with how I'm addressed? And if using a different word makes life easier for them and makes sh1te all difference to me, why would I choose to not do that?

We all call people things they want us to call them.

Every single one of us knows a Paddy, Marty, Jim, Des and so on.

When did Ms instead of Miss or Mrs start?

When you are talking about them, say them, not he or she.

It takes more effort to be outraged.

Miss is a young girl, Ms a single adult lady, Mrs a married lady. Learned that in English Language in school to address letters.

[Armagh18]

I haven't a problem calling someone by their chosen name, but a pronoun such as 'them' when it is a singular person in front of me, no way.

Why? What difference does it make to you? I don't understand the reason someone would choose pronouns for themselves but who am I to say they shouldn't just because I am content with how I'm addressed? And if using a different word makes life easier for them and makes sh1te all difference to me, why would I choose to not do that?

We all call people things they want us to call them.

Every single one of us knows a Paddy, Marty, Jim, Des and so on.

When did Ms instead of Miss or Mrs start?

When you are talking about them, say them, not he or she.

It takes more effort to be outraged.

Miss is a young girl, Ms a single adult lady, Mrs a married lady. Learned that in English Language in school to address letters.

Every day is a school day. Always thought Ms was when you didn't know if they were married or not.

[trueblue1234]

Always thought Ms was when you weren't sure of marital status? Anyway, I'd be happy enough calling them whatever they prefer. Ain't going to change anything for me regardless of what I think bout it.

[Keyser soze]

Yeah Ms is when a woman [or they ] doesn't wish to disclose their marital status.

Mr doesn't denote marital status for a man whereas Miss and Mrs does denote it for a woman, so basically it's an equality thing.

[AustinPowers]

Where do you stand  on the wife not taking the husbands  surname?

Or  the husband taking the wife's surname?

[Would ye whist]

Takes a brave {insert other appropriate words} to take the wife's name

My wife kept her name for work as she had built her reputation/work following with her maiden name but has her married name on all official docs etc

Where do you stand  on the wife not taking the husbands  surname?

Or  the husband taking the wife's surname?

[bennydorano]

Always thought Ms was when you weren't sure of marital status? Anyway, I'd be happy enough calling them whatever they prefer. Ain't going to change anything for me regardless of what I think bout it.

Covers both, but considering it's near 40 years ago when I was taught that it would be safe to assume some societal norm changes in between

[Milltown Row2]

Where do you stand  on the wife not taking the husbands  surname?

Or  the husband taking the wife's surname?

If the wife's name is sexier then yeah 

A lot of double barrel names now, but who gets their name first wins

[Armagh18]

Where do you stand  on the wife not taking the husbands  surname?

Or  the husband taking the wife's surname?

Woke nonsense

[quit yo jibbajabba]

I always thought Ms was when a lady was married now not,

Finally learnt something from this godforsaken place 😝😝

[AustinPowers]

Where do you stand  on the wife not taking the husbands  surname?

Or  the husband taking the wife's surname?

If the wife's name is sexier then yeah 

A lot of double barrel names now, but who gets their name first wins

See that's another issue. Who  goes first in a double barrrelled name?