Quote from: Ryan O on Today at 11:11:49 AMQuote from: theticklemister on Today at 10:13:09 AMWho gives a fiddlers fcuk what about :deliberately missing the point, theres no interaction with absolutely anyone at any club.
Where the referee parks
If he comes changed already
Wants to leave after the game.
If the chosen referee decides to bring the ball up lots of times, there is going to be a reason.
How does that help with building any sort of respect. Used to be before underage games refs came in had wee word with two squads on things he would be particularly pulling people on. Takes seconds to say who committed a foul and what they seen.
Keep going the way we are going you'll breed a generation of robots who can't show any emotion on the pitch for fear of a reprimand. Players are allowed to be frustrated if a free is given against them, its an immediate reaction. Its the secondary reaction that I issue with, thats what the rule should be clamping down on.
And if you don't give a fiddlers fcuk, sure don't comment..I don't give a fiddlers fcuk about screening but its bee in your bonnet.
Quote from: theticklemister on Today at 10:13:09 AMWho gives a fiddlers fcuk what about :deliberately missing the point, theres no interaction with absolutely anyone at any club.
Where the referee parks
If he comes changed already
Wants to leave after the game.
If the chosen referee decides to bring the ball up lots of times, there is going to be a reason.
Quote from: braveheart on Today at 09:06:23 AMcouldn't care less what you think it sounds like, I named nobody. Fill your boots with assumptions.Quote from: Ryan O on August 02, 2026, 09:22:06 PMThis sounds like another Personal attack to me. Imagine a Referee,after taking abuse for 60-65 minutes not wanting to hang around for another 15-30 and take more abuse for some of the decisions he made. Especially from people who think like you! In most games there is a level of controversy of some kind so why would you hang around. And as Stickman says,we don't know what these Referee's lifestyle is like so if they come kitted out that is their choice. But £40 wouldn't motivate me to do it,that is a definite.Quote from: braveheart on August 02, 2026, 05:20:52 PMCan't agree with that at all. When you see a referee park in the closest space to the gate, doesn't use the changing room supplied. Speaks to absolutely nobody pre match, at half time and leaves immediately.Quote from: Ryan O on July 31, 2026, 10:40:36 PMI agree its a completely thankless job and always remember that when they are refereeing games theres a fair chance their club is playing somewhere else so they miss that also.The Referee in question is Notorious for moving the ball forward,this has been going on for years. So I find it mind boggling why players and management even attempt to speak back to him. Tbh I find him to be the most consistent Referee in Derry as you know what you are going to get with him and there is no back doors with him
There are numerous young refs in Derry and having took underage teams find them very approachable lads, but the old guard you are hinting of is just streaming with arrogance at times. Players are going to be frustrated with decisions and feeling show, verbal abuse it obviously not the be tolerated but verbal disappointment isn't banned yet.
When the new rules were introduced I do think it made massive difference in respecting refs, but I do think respect is a two way street.
Shouting, dictating and gesturing to players about fouls or making them stand for a scolding and a yellow card is schoolyard stuff, and won't help.
He know himself firstly theres a high chance of controversy and secondly that people will potentially blame him.
Thats not normal for the vast majority of refs in Derry. Arrive early don't leave straight away give an opinion on the game. Referees are GAA men like the rest of us and I genuinely don't think theres any out with a dislike for individual clubs.
The ref in question gets very little respect, he shows absolutely no respect to players. Coming to a game speaking to nobody and going home again for £40 is a miserable way to spend an evening.