Deiseach, you'll be sound in no time. You are still sharp as a lance with the posts and I noticed one there a week or so back about my name you used ! You have the right attitude, keep 'er lit. That is important, very important and talk to people. As you know I was diagnosed with the big C in Feb and have kinda gone through the same procedure. Today I am back working again because I got lots of support and not least from the members of this board and friends of mine and without talking to them I could have easily reached for the dressing gown and the slippers and became an expert in Countdown and all that.
I don't know your circumstances, ie, married single, children etc. One of the things that seems to be on your mind is that your employer has to pay you while you are off work. I didn't have that concern because I am self employed but I am sure you are aware that there is a Disability Alllowance Scheme (Not Disability Benefit) and you would qualify for this. After six months you can return to work on a gradual basis and if you have a fear about this then what happens is you get the full allowance for one year, along with full wages from your employer, 75% allowance (along with wages)the next year and so on. You may not want to do this but the system is there and it might take pressure off you.
I used to set dates ahead and what I would likely be doing on that date, one of which unfortunately was being on The Square in Portlaoise in June drinking out of the Delany Cup ! Nervous? I'd be a complete liar to say I wasn't nervous, even driving at times or picking up an electric drill to drill a hole in something at work there would be a barrier but this is where you have to adapt the Dan Shanahan strategy - go for it, I was told to do not what I felt like doing but what my body felt like doing so keep the head up and push on, I know you will.
I wish you the very best, keep positive and you will be right as rain in no time at all.
I don't know your circumstances, ie, married single, children etc. One of the things that seems to be on your mind is that your employer has to pay you while you are off work. I didn't have that concern because I am self employed but I am sure you are aware that there is a Disability Alllowance Scheme (Not Disability Benefit) and you would qualify for this. After six months you can return to work on a gradual basis and if you have a fear about this then what happens is you get the full allowance for one year, along with full wages from your employer, 75% allowance (along with wages)the next year and so on. You may not want to do this but the system is there and it might take pressure off you.
I used to set dates ahead and what I would likely be doing on that date, one of which unfortunately was being on The Square in Portlaoise in June drinking out of the Delany Cup ! Nervous? I'd be a complete liar to say I wasn't nervous, even driving at times or picking up an electric drill to drill a hole in something at work there would be a barrier but this is where you have to adapt the Dan Shanahan strategy - go for it, I was told to do not what I felt like doing but what my body felt like doing so keep the head up and push on, I know you will.
I wish you the very best, keep positive and you will be right as rain in no time at all.