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#1216
General discussion / Re: Death Notices
January 08, 2020, 01:40:43 PM
Quote from: RedHand88 on January 08, 2020, 01:15:36 PM
Quote from: brokencrossbar1 on January 07, 2020, 09:17:21 PM
Quote from: BennyCake on January 07, 2020, 09:11:32 PM
I don't care what anyone says, but social media is a big part of today's mental health issues.

Everyone is connected but nobody is actually taking the time to meet and talk properly.

What is worse is that I witnessed people 'making hay' out of this tragedy on social media today!  Let the family grieve without trying to put yourself front and centre. It's actually disgusting.

For the next generation it's all about those likes and retweets. Thoughts and prayers, heart emojis. Repeat.

Gives them validation they aren't getting in their real life because they spend all day on social media. It's a viscous circle.

Agree again, in the past humans got little or no validation, now a days likes on facebook etc, thankfully I dont or ever will have a facebook account.
#1217
General discussion / Re: Death Notices
January 08, 2020, 01:38:03 PM
Quote from: RedHand88 on January 08, 2020, 01:08:34 PM
Quote from: Fear Bun Na Sceilpe on January 08, 2020, 10:58:00 AM
Quote from: johnnycool on January 08, 2020, 10:02:07 AM
Quote from: Fear Bun Na Sceilpe on January 07, 2020, 10:25:02 PM
Substance abuse, sexuality struggles , sex abuse, economic hardships, loss of religion without a spiritual replacement, legacy strife from troubles. All need dealt with.

Agree with most, but not sure about "loss of religion without spiritual replacement"

Do you think not having a deity to worship or afterlife to strive for causes mental health issues?

It is just my own theory(I am not a Mass goer), but I think a loss of faith can lead to despair. I cant really articulate properly what I am trying to say, but a lot of our old values(religious or spiritual) have been replaced with shallow and materialistic values. As I said just my own thoughts, and it would be lower down the list for me than some of the other things I listed.

I agree. I know alot of people like to throw the boot into the church and of course some of the scandals associated with them are horrific. But we haven't replaced that spiritual connection since the dissasocistion with religion began in the 90s/00s. Any wonder depression and suicude is so rife. What would be the point in life if you didn't have some sort of belief in a higher power?

Well put and would strongly agree.
#1218
Quote from: Milltown Row2 on January 07, 2020, 01:39:25 PM
The Girl in Cyprus ? That's a weird one

Would not be into the take photo or video culture, in this case it saved the Israelis. She was having a good time, after the shame kicked in
#1219
General discussion / Re: Black and Tans Commemoration
January 07, 2020, 01:28:26 PM
Michael Martin the Irish version of Jeremy Corbyn?
#1220
General discussion / Re: Death Notices
January 07, 2020, 08:37:15 AM
Quote from: Shamrock Shore on January 07, 2020, 08:01:23 AM
Larry Gogan  :-\

RIP, came across as a good fella.
#1221
Guendouzi played well tonight. Was my mom although Lacazette got it.
#1222
Quote from: From the Bunker on January 04, 2020, 06:43:52 PM
Quote from: skeog on January 04, 2020, 06:10:07 PM
Kilcoo totally deserved victory,hopefully can win it now.MM showed a bit of emotion near the end.Good to see wonderful coach who is also a gentleman off the field.

Yes, years after his involvement with Mayo he called to a local man in his late 50's from our area to see him before he died from terminal Cancer. A round trip probably 6 hours to see a low profile man he knew that used to open the dressing rooms and give them access to a local pitch back when he was involved with Mayo.

Fair play, sounds like a decent fella.
#1223
Quote from: The Hill is Blue on January 04, 2020, 05:31:02 PM
Quote from: Rudi on January 04, 2020, 04:39:35 PM
MDMA has to be one of the most over rated GAA players of all time.

He has SEVEN senior All Ireland medals ..... ::) ::)

Yeah its some Dublin side that can carry him.
#1224
Well done to Killco and MM
#1225
Then he gets a black card for being so awkward. Couldn't kick a ball to save himself.
#1226
MDMA has to be one of the most over rated GAA players of all time.
#1227
Pure scutter, the Brits go mad for it, says it all. ::)
#1228
General discussion / Re: Movie reccomendations
December 23, 2019, 01:57:45 PM
Lion on Netflix, a true story about a boy in India who got lost is probably the best film I've seen in 10 years.
#1229
General discussion / Re: Depression
December 18, 2019, 09:44:09 PM
Quote from: Boycey on December 18, 2019, 08:03:26 PM
Quote from: Rudi on December 18, 2019, 04:07:57 PM
Quote from: Boycey on December 18, 2019, 03:11:16 PM
Very simplistic....


Thats the problem, people should keep things as simple as possible, no need to over complicate things. Take stock of whats relevant and what matters.

As someone who's being battling it for a number of years I wish I wouldn't over complicate (mostly simple) things. That's part of the problem for a lot of people. Taking stock isn't always an option especially in the lonely hours when ur brain is running at maximum capacity with each thought more outlandish than the last..

I've been there too, thankfully not in the past 6 years. The initial comment was in response to a particular post and not depression sufferers in general.
I wish you well and hope you find light and clarity in your life again.
#1230
General discussion / Re: Depression
December 18, 2019, 04:07:57 PM
Quote from: Boycey on December 18, 2019, 03:11:16 PM
Very simplistic....

Thats the problem, people should keep things as simple as possible, no need to over complicate things. Take stock of whats relevant and what matters.