how to get out of a wedding??

[charlie stubbs]

i have said verbally a few months ago that i would go to a girl in works wedding.  it is in december in scotland though i dont think i can afford it coming up to xmas and im heading to newcastle for a few days over xmas with 7 mates and hioping get tickets for the newcastle liverpool game on 28th!any advice how could get out of this??

my boss going too and i would probably end up wrote off and cause a scene.  dont really know that many going to wedding and dont think i would have that good of a time for the money would have to spend.

[leenie]

even if ya didn't go u'd still have to give her a present......

[pintsofguinness]

i have said verbally a few months ago that i would go to a girl in works wedding.  it is in december in scotland though i dont think i can afford it coming up to xmas and im heading to newcastle for a few days over xmas with 7 mates and hioping get tickets for the newcastle liverpool game on 28th!any advice how could get out of this??

Just explain that to her I'm sure she'll understand. 

And you DO NOT NEED TO BUY A PRESENT IF YOU'RE NOT GOING!!!


This reminds me, I better start working on this years excuse to avoid the work christmas party 

[leenie]

is it not the right thing to do and buy a present just cause ya can't go u were still asked??

i dunno i assumed thats wat ya do

[pintsofguinness]

is it not the right thing to do and buy a present just cause ya can't go u were still asked??

i dunno i assumed thats wat ya do

It is not the right thing to do!
They'd be lucky to get a present if I was going never mind if I wasnt!

[Puckoon]

Eh - Honesty?

Ive said it before, weddings are half full of people who dont want to be there, while the other half werent really wanted to come.

[The Gs Man]

Im getting married in a couple of weeks.  Anyone know how I can get out of it???

[pintsofguinness]

Eh - Honesty?

Ive said it before, weddings are half full of people who dont want to be there, while the other half werent really wanted to come.

Sad but true.

[dodgy umpire]

Im getting married in a couple of weeks.  Anyone know how I can get out of it???

ride charlie stubbs' work friend. two birds one stone

[Tony Baloney]

Believe me you'll not be missed if you don't go. I'd just be straight up and tell her you couldn't afford it. If she's worth knowing then she'll understand, if she takes the hump then is she really worth going to see in Scotland! Or you could ride her before the wedding and consider that your present to her....

[The Real Laoislad]

Eh - Honesty?

Ive said it before, weddings are half full of people who dont want to be there, while the other half werent really wanted to come.

Won't be inviting you to mine so

[comethekingdom]

is it not the right thing to do and buy a present just cause ya can't go u were still asked??

i dunno i assumed thats wat ya do

It is not the right thing to do!
They'd be lucky to get a present if I was going never mind if I wasnt!

Stingy!!!!!!!!!!!

[Square Ball]

With Puck on this one, tell the truth, after all its 1 or 2 less meals they have to pay for

[dodo]

Don't be such a pussy about this.....just ask to have a private word with her, just the two of you. Tell her that you know each other a long time and that you have always been straight with each other and this is why you have to tell her that her fiance is having an affair. End of problem.

[Square Ball]

Eh - Honesty?

Ive said it before, weddings are half full of people who dont want to be there, while the other half werent really wanted to come.

Won't be inviting you to mine so

You getting hitched LL?