It didnt give it context - it didnt mention waiting until it was medically safe at all - ‘There will come a time, be it for work, football whatever, where this will no longer be possible/acceptable you then went on to say what you thought was the best way forward and again again no mention of waiting until it was safe medically.
You cant expect someone to read your mind.
Anyway - I couldnt read your mind or guess what you were thinking - no point continuing this - its futile