Rally at Belfast City hall tomorrow 3.00 pm
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Show posts MenuQuote from: Old yeller on July 14, 2014, 07:15:06 PMQuote from: glens abu on July 14, 2014, 06:59:37 PMNot so bad, itll be all sorted by morning so
Great turnout tonight in West Belfast for Gaza,white line picket from Divis to bottom of Whiterock.
Quote from: Fuzzman on July 11, 2014, 07:46:30 PM
Has anyone ever been to Bundoran on 12th July?
What's it like?
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The Falls
Quote from: Itchy on July 09, 2014, 10:51:55 PM
What can be said glens other than the Israelis are barbarian tramps. Unfortunately nothing will be done.
Quote from: tbrick18 on July 09, 2014, 02:31:54 PM
With 5 kids we've been through most of what everyone has already said on here.
Our first pregnancy ended in a suspected miscarriage when we were on holiday, only for us to discover when we came home that she was still pregnant and on admission to hospital be told it was an ectopic pregnancy (where the baby is growing in the fallopian tube) and would abort itself. We waiting 10 days in hospital for a natural abort which never happened whilst my wifes health deteriorated due to internal bleeding. Eventual surgery left us in the position of being told it would be unlikely for us to be able to have children due to the damage done.
Stressful.
So we went to a private gynaecologist consultant who specialised in fertility, got on treatment and eventually the IVF waiting list...when out of the blue my wife became pregnant. The pregancy went smooth and a natural (scheduled) birth produced a baby girl.
Happy!
However, my wife quickly developed post natal depression and it was quite severe.
Stress again!
Treatment for that eventually worked and a 2nd pregnancy came quite quickly and ran smoothly until or 2nd was born, a baby boy. Everyone well for once, even though the post natal crept back but we were prepared this time.
Stressful but manageable.
Then a 3rd pregnancy came along, whilst she was on the pill. It seems the treatment for the post natal had counteracted the pill and so we were expecting number 3. This pregnancy was difficult as my wife had to come off her meds and the depression really took hold. A few near death experiences ensued and we were lucky to get through it, then we discovered the baby was breach and had to be delivered by c-section.
The baby girl was well, my wife wasnt. We now had 3 kids under 3 years old and my wife finished up admitted to hospital. She was severely ill. I finished up taking a year off work to mind the kids and tend to the Mrs who spend several months in hospital.
Eventually she got home and slowly things got better, but our new baby had severe reflux and spent a lot of time in and out of hospital.
Again more stressful.
But over time it all improved and my wife got back to herself (more or less) and after about a year and a half our youngest started to come out of the reflux and we decided it was too risky to have more kids.
Fast forward another year, and out of the blue my wife finds she's pregnant again!
Holy f**K!
Stress x 1000.
Not knowing how she would be, and not knowing how we'd cope with another kid. We went back to our consultant as we had with the others, to be told we were having twins.
Stress x 10000000000000
Just as we were getting used to the idea, and the Mrs's health was holding out, we were told there were problems, twin-to-twin syndrome where one of the twins is getting all the nutrients. As the twins were identical, they shared bloods supplies so if the weaker twin was not to survive neither would survive.
Stress through the roof.
We had scans and tests at the royal 3 times a week until 31 weeks we were told we needed immediate delivery.
Both boys born by section, after losing their heart rates several times. 2lb2 and 2lb4.
About 30 people in delivery theatre expecting the worse, only for everything to be reasonably good. Both breathing on their own, very small but reasonably healty.
The next 6 weeks was a blur in neo-natal with blood transfusions, surgeries, and too many things to mention but eventually everyone got home and everyone is well.
Now almost 2 years later we have twin terrors, one of which still gets up every night and wakes us all. But it could have been worse.
With our older kids we used the controlled crying technique and it worked.
With twins its harder as you dont want one to wake the other but they'll eventually grow out of it (I hope).
So now we've got an 8 year old girl, a 6 year old boy, a 5 year old girl and twin 2 year old boys.
I'm more stressed than ever, but sure I wouldnt change a thing.
Quote from: NAG1 on July 08, 2014, 08:44:56 AMQuote from: cockahoop on July 07, 2014, 07:52:51 PMQuote from: HiMucker on July 07, 2014, 07:45:46 PMQuote from: cockahoop on July 07, 2014, 05:34:12 PMOO membership has been rapidly dropping year on year since the early 90s if I'm not mistakenQuote from: Orior on July 07, 2014, 05:23:05 PM
Some person came up with a plan to reroute the parade through a neighbouring loyalist area. Did anyone else read about that? Seemed like a sensible idea.
it definately does but that would take a few sensible politicians to sort that out and im afraid to say they are few and far between,proacative parades through nationalist areas are not on but i do believe if dealt with correctly at the time (15 years ago) these issues would have been sorted eg Derry and apprentice boys,but instead a problem has become a monster in our society where its got to the stage nobody is prepared to move and the more residents say no the more loyalists protest,i firmly belive some resident groups and republican representitves have been to the orange order what thatcher was to the IRA in the 70's early 80's,ie recruiting agents
The bbc did a piece last week where loyalist bands have nearly doubled and the orange order have become a lot stronger
These are not mutually exclusive, loyalist band membership could be on the rise with the OO on the decline.
Quote from: country bumpkin on July 06, 2014, 09:54:28 AM
Aye right u are Glens abu..................but will such grand plan involve ensuring that all will make themselves available..............?
Quote from: T Fearon on July 05, 2014, 10:35:41 PM
The only way to get rid of tribal politics is to get rid of tribal parties. I do believe Direct Rule/Joint Authority would at the very least switch the focus onto real issues handled by politicians a lot more able and experienced than the Stormont Shower
Quote from: T Fearon on July 05, 2014, 09:24:21 PM
I mean real politicians from South and UK who at least have a clue about running health,education,welfare reform etc however imperfectly, with no tribal constituencies to serve
Quote from: Maguire01 on July 05, 2014, 08:04:37 PMQuote from: glens abu on July 05, 2014, 06:51:55 PMBut the question is whether we'd miss them if they weren't there.Quote from: Maguire01 on July 05, 2014, 06:44:17 PMQuote from: glens abu on July 05, 2014, 05:54:31 PMBut can you argue FOR the politicians in the Assembly?Quote from: T Fearon on July 05, 2014, 05:50:03 PM
Would anyone miss the Stormont institutions? Are they advancing the nationalist cause one iota when unionists have a veto on everything anyway (as opposed to advancing Sinn Fein's agenda of simply being in government North and South)?
I'm thinking that either joint authority or even so called direct rule (with strong Dublin involvement) would be much better than the current situation.At least we would be governed by real politicians instead of 17th century fundamrntalists and bigots who generally haven't a clue
Yeah right enough those REAL politicians are doing a great job in the 26.
Not too many of them but then they are who we voted for and the institutions are also what we voted for.