Quote from: DirtyDozen12 on January 22, 2010, 05:56:44 PMQuote from: Rois on January 22, 2010, 05:14:23 PM
I was on holidays last week - a group of six (married) guys from Essex were staying in our chalet. One of the girls in our group ended up hooking up with one of the married men. She didn't show any remorse (she's not in a relationship herself). The other five guys were laughing at it and were slagging both of them off.
I was kinda disgusted that a. she didn't care he was married and b. this guy's mates just accepted it.
(first and last time I will have been on holiday with this girl btw)
In this case, she's as bad a character as he, having been fully aware.
Sorry i cant agree with your post as I cant really see what your mate done wrong here to be fair. The blame lies all with the married man, he's the one with commitments and possibly a family and a WIFE to think about but he didnt obviously care. Your mate is single and has no ties or commitments to anyone so she is free to ride all round her. She fancied this married man and he was willing to ride her, then its no skin off her nose because:
a) as said, she has no commitment to anyone else so she's not the one cheating
b) Also, it would be different even if she knew the man's wife but im guessing she doesnt as you's where in England
c) She will probably never see him again, she was only looking for a one night stand but i dont think she's coming back for more (see Enrqiue Iglasas lyrics to the song One Night Stand for this reference)
d) Nobody back at home in Ireland would give a shite if she rode some married English guy, it will be more scandal if she was doing it with the local mechanic in (insert local town name here) who was married (see Kevin Webster for reference)
e) She will have no guilt whatsoever and why should she, she spread them, he accepted the invitation so its him who must deal with the consequences.
That is only half true and a very shallow way of looking at things.